(Christany EMAIL PART 2) Thanks for verifying the order of events. Quite interesting. Very interesting. Interesting indeed. so what else did you manage to squeeze in between that time line? How many broken hearts do you leave behind? Let me tell you a secret. Believe it or not, and I know this is going to be very hard to believe, because Im Tiffany, and such a wonderful woman, but Ive never broken a mans heart. I know, amazing huh? Ive been told that I needed to be in control of things, which I think is quite the contrary. I want a man that can be a man. If I have to teach you, then its time for us to move on. I am traditional, hence I am a Capricorn. My birthday falls on the 18th. Ill invite the three of you to the gathering. Hey, all men are stupid!!! So yeah, you would have told me that in the hopes of getting me interested so I would be completely infatuated with you, and become one of those deranged women. So you can write about me on your website, when I try and crash your wedding that I secretly thought was supposed to be for me. Dramatic enough for you? No, of course you arent stupid. Never doubt how incredible you are:-) Congratulations on your weight loss!!! I weigh 145 pounds, and I cant seem to lose ten pounds to save my life. Okay, Ill admit, I reached 152 pounds and had to join weight watchers. Ive maintained that 145, but cant seem to get under it. How did you do it? Im thinking of becoming anorexic for about a month. The gym is cool, but its taking to damn long. I have that trip to Germany to worry about!!! I agree with you about not having any sympathy for the people who eat uncontrollably. Its a little ridiculous, but I just dont find it neccessary to point it out to them. Youve been there, done that, so maybe you can. I thought I was going to burst when I got up to 165 pounds when I was pregnant,and the doctors had the nerves to say gain more weight. My daughter only weighed 5lbs 10 oz. So, what was that other 15 pounds for? Okay, thats me being such a woman. Okay Bachelor, I know that I may be living in a fantasy world, but you didnt have to take away my hope and dreams of meeting a man who can be faithful, fatherless, (okay, he can have one or maybe two, My ex, lied said he had twins, then his sister accidently let it slip that he had twins, and a girl and a boy, I was devastated, to say the least. I want more children, I have one, he has four, I like being a mom, but and here is another contradiction, I dont like kids, or other peoples kids should I say). Anyway, there is a man out there for me, there is a man out there for me (Im hyperventilating), there is a man out there for me, and he will be faithful, and he will be honest, and he will NOT be gay. Sigh..I feel better. But dont you dare rain on my parade. Its not fair, its just not fair!!! Thank you for allowing (the friends issue) to be my call. I just love having options. Bachelor, (that was my first boyfriends name, I called him Steve, hes the Valentine guy, we were together for six years) I have enjoyed exchanging emails with you. I volunteered more information about myself, because I felt as though you shared a part of your life with me, and I wanted to extend the same courtesy. Ill just say that maybe we will become friends, or maybe youll disappear on me again, and not email me (next thing you know you would have won the lottery, or had twins, and Ill be getting an email referring me to a website). However, so far, Im pretty happy with the way things are going. Lets make a deal and just say, well see. Work for you? I read the email and had to smile, Steve, I mean Bachelor, complimented me. I truly blushed. Thank you. Youd think Id be married by now. Well, I would be, accept, I tend to stalk my men, and display such insecurity, that I always chase men off. LOL, Well, I think Im single because men, like women, fail to recognize a good thing when its so simple and evident. Also, sex is a priority in so many mens lives. Im trying to remain celibate until I meet someone who is willing to give as much as I give. No need to invest intimacy into something that isnt worth it. Sex is a priority on many guys list. I like it, and believe me, its hard restraining from it, but I believe it will be worth it in the end. Maybe Captain and I will work something out. Germany, Texas, Texas Germany, hmmm.. You wouldnt have been any good being a "playah." I have the ability to read people. Okay, I make you take a lie detector test, but hey you have to be prepared, never know when some man is out there trying to take advantage. Oh, and my magnetic personality, you cant tell???!!! Honestly, Its not appropriate for me to answer that question. But dont worry, both of our charges are positive. Well be okay in the friends category. I hope to hear from you soon. Take care. Tiffany